Pre-Marital Agreements

Family law matters deal with sensitive family relationships. There are very few things we face in life which are more stressful than these family law matters can be. Legal issues in family law cases, which can be hard to understand, paired with emotions and unforeseen life changes can become quite overwhelming. We are here to help you with all of those challenges.

We are often asked what content can be put in a PMA.  Truthfully, there are many things. The Family Code governs family law.

According to the Family Code, PMAs can contain the following:

  • The rights and obligations of each of the parties in any of the property of either or both of them whenever and wherever acquired or located.
  • The right to buy, sell, use, transfer, exchange, abandon, lease, consume, expend, assign, create a security interest in, mortgage, encumber, dispose of, or otherwise manage and control property.
  • The disposition of property upon separation, marital dissolution, death, or the occurrence or nonoccurrence of any other event.
  • The making of a will, trust, or other arrangements to carry out the provisions of the agreement.
  • The ownership rights in and disposition of the death benefit from a life insurance policy.
  • The choice of law governing the construction of the agreement.
  • Any other matter, including their personal rights and obligations, not in violation of public policy or a statute imposing a criminal penalty.

Limitations on child support, child custody, religion, damages for infidelity, among a few other things, are unenforceable and not usually included in a PMA.

Also, the law states that there is a deadline when it comes to entering into a PMA so it is not something you want to complete at the last minute.  There is a seven (7) calendar day rule. You want to ask an attorney about this.

If you find you are within that 7-day window and it is too late for a PMA, you may also consider a postnuptial agreement, or “post-nup”.  This is an agreement that takes place after the marriage has already occurred.  The reasons for obtaining one would be the same as those mentioned for a PMA.  The thing to consider with a post-nup is that the act of a marriage gives rise to strict legal fiduciary obligations between the couple and are very closely scrutinized and often challenged.  It is highly important that an attorney draft this document or any PMA.


Our Ratings and Reviews

10.0Christina Weed
9.6Lisa Janine Mendes


PHONE: 925.390.3222

FAX: 925.301.8667


Mendes Weed, LLP is located in Walnut Creek and serves clients around the Bay Area. For your convenience, we also have offices in San Francisco and Sacramento by appointment only.

Se habla español.


Send us an email

11 + 9 =


Walnut Creek Main Office

1990 N. California Boulevard
Suite 1020
Walnut Creek, CA 94596


San Francisco Office

201 Spear Street
Suite 1100
San Francisco, CA 94105

By appointment only.

Sacramento Office

770 L Street
Suite 950
Sacramento, CA 95814

By appointment only.